Jeri Villarreal knows how hard it can be to get up off the couch and start working out, how the voices in our own heads can defeat us when we think about getting more fit. She took nearly 20 minutes to run a mile in high school and wasn’t that physically active her whole life, until five years ago when she made an important decision – to stop saying no. Now, the 44-year-old triathlete, personal trainer and mother of three has five years of racing experience under her belt and a fire in her body to keep pushing herself.
Through her mental commitment to push herself, through perseverance and dedication to excel in her sport of triathlons, Jeri has proven that it’s never too late to get up and start moving. Not just start moving, but for her – start competing. And, she believes hijab is no reason not to compete. She was one of the first hijabi triathletes to compete in the Chicago Triathlon and believes the only thing that can possibly limit her is her own imagination.
Fitness is within the reach of all women, says Jeri, and hijab is no reason not to do whatever it is that you want to do to be more fit. “Once you’ve decided that this is important to you and you’ve made your plan to get fit and be consistent, don’t let anyone stand in your way, says Jeri. “If curious eyes stare, be kind but show them what real power and dedication looks like.” I spoke with Jeri about her journey to becoming a triathlete, the challenges of wearing a hijab for hours while competing and what are the biggest impediments for women to get more fit.
You came into the sport of triathlons only five years ago – what inspired you to take on a triathlon? And then eight in that first year alone?
A little more than five year ago I made a decision to stop saying "no" or “I can’t” and to embrace new challenges head on. So when a friend asked me if I'd be interested in doing a triathlon, I said “yes” and joined a local triathlon club that day. I completed eight triathlons that first year. When I completed my first triathlon with an open water swim, the moment I crossed that first finish line, I felt like an athlete. I learned in that moment that my potential had only been limited by my imagination. I felt powerful and limitless, and that is a feeling that kept me coming back for more.
What is it about the triathlon that you enjoy the most? What leg of the three-part race is the most challenging for you and why?
I really enjoy my time on the bike. It is probably my favorite leg of the race. I love passing people on the bike. I can’t help it, I’m super competitive, and that is just the best feeling of catching up to someone and then knowing they are now behind me. I like to always act as if they are just inches from overtaking me again so that I never relax and keep pushing. I think that my swim is where I’ve focused a lot of my attention for improvement. While it is the shortest portion of a triathlon, it’s so frustrating to get out of the water last and try to make it up that time on the bike. I’ve made so much progress in swimming that it’s motivated me to keep pushing myself. I’m no longer one of the last out of the water; I’m a solid mid-pack swimmer.
Being a covered athlete brings its own set of challenges. Non-covered athletes and spectators often wonder if we get overheated or if our clothing inhibits performance? What (if any) parts do you find challenging?
By the time we’re running, we’re all hot, even if I’m the only one being asked. One of the benefits of being covered is sun protection. It certainly keeps you safer and your skin temperature cooler. However, in a humid environment, the extra fabric can feel restrictive at times. Every year, my gear gets better as I try to find the coolest, moisture-wicking and hydrodynamic clothing possible. I’ve got my tri kit down to just two pieces after finally designing a custom kit. I’m sure I will continue to adjust as better tech fabric [becomes] available.
Was fitness always a part of your life?
Not at all. I used to think that you were either born athletic or you weren’t. I remember taking almost 20 minutes to complete the one mile test in high school. My coach just looked at me disappointingly each trip around the track. He literally shook his head. I believed that I “couldn’t” run, and I wasn’t a runner. I believed it and I lived that belief. If my 16-year-old self could see me now, she’d be completely shocked! And my coach … well, he probably knew what took me two decades to learn: With a limitless mindset, you have limitless potential.
What drew you to working with Haute Hijab on this new sports hijab line?
Haute Hijab is a company that understand Muslim women. They know that we don’t all have the same story, and they’ve designed a
sports hijab line with that in mind. They understand that we are already out there putting in the work, doing amazing things, so they put in the research and technology to help us do it more comfortably. There is so much to love about this.
What were your challenges or frustrations around hijab and sport/fitness?
One of the biggest frustrations for me is after seven-plus hours of wearing a hijab; it starts to feel restrictive, hot and uncomfortable. I don’t want to constantly think about my hijab.
How does Haute Hijab Sport solve those challenges/frustrations for you?
The new hijab line makes me forget I have a hijab on. It is so lightweight and comfortable that I can literally wear it all day. That is so important to me, because no matter what activity I’m doing, I’m usually doing it for hours and not minutes. Being comfortable and cool is the most important thing to me.
What kind of sport hijab from this collection do you prefer the most and why?
I really love the criss-cross because it has really good coverage in the front and back. That makes me feel like I won’t have issues with inadvertently becoming uncovered with a lot of movement. It is also so comfortable, I easily forgot I was wearing it. While I’m usually focused on fit and function, I’d have to say this hijab looked so beautiful on me! I hadn’t even known that was an option. Fit, function and fashion.
Is it challenging to wear hijab and work out when one has natural hair, given the material and purpose of sports hijabs?
My hair is not 100 percent natural, I do straighten it twice a year (instead of every eight weeks). My hair is extremely thick, long, curly and wavy. It takes many hours for it to air dry. Wearing a sports hijab made of synthetic materials means that my hair stays damp a lot after hours of training and sweating. Many sports hijabs don’t allow enough airflow for my hair to dry, and it starts to have a mildew-like smell because of this. I rinse it with witch hazel in order to keep it smelling fresh.
In your work as a triathlete and fitness advisor, what do women tell you about what holds them back the most from working out consistently or taking up a sport?
Many times, women tell me there are two things that keep them from working out consistently or even trying to work out: finding the confidence to workout knowing all eyes will be on them and finding the time to workout.
What advice would you give us – to help us make fitness a priority, especially as covered Muslim women?
Fitness is a gift that you give to yourself, but it also benefits those around you. It is your duty to make this important time for yourself. Just as some of us have meetings on the calendar, we have to schedule time for ourselves.
We give a lot of ourselves everyday: work, family, school, helping friends; we must prioritize our own health and fitness in order to better accomplish all that is asked of us in a given day. Once you’ve decided that this is important to you and you’ve made your plan to get fit and be consistent, don’t let anyone stand in your way. You are at the gym, on the track, on the street and in the pool for you and how it makes you a better version of yourself for those around you. If curious eyes stare, be kind but show them what real power and dedication looks like.
We’re so excited to have you as one of the athletes for our Haute Hijab Sport collection! What message would you like to share with other Muslim women athletes?
Anything is possible with a limited mindset. Never sell yourself short. You are capable of amazing things; the first step is to believe it then you can achieve it.